I'm sorry you had to go through that. I think some parents struggle to balance the desire to see their kids succeed against their own vanity and insecurity. I know my mom did and still does--even though I'm now 54 and she's 80. We ended up in completely different fields, but that never stopped...
I've developed a lot of admiration for Barbosu since the Olympics, and it's definitely heartening to see Romania on the upswing (pun intended). I also recently noticed that Barbosu bears some facial resemblance to a young Courtney Kupets (ca. 2003-04).
I wanted to add something deep and...
The Asian Champs WAG team has changed: Zhou Yaqin, Zhang Yihan, Qin Xinyi, Zhang Xinyi, Zhang Kexin, and Jin Xiaoxuan (alternate).
Apparently, Zhang Qingying is still recovering from a foot/ankle injury. I imagine that Zhejiang wants to keep her in bubble wrap until the National Games.
Yes, Wu was an excellent beamer. She had some decent results as a junior ca. 2003-04 but sustained a serious injury (back, iirc). She competed some watered-down routines at the 2005 National Games and then retired.